“Don’t give up “ is one of those valuable advices that is almost always received as a motivational technique. The truth is we all go through life doing what we can to “not give up” on others and events.

Not giving up holds a feeling of resistance and pushing back.

Not giving up holds the power to give it one more try.

Not giving up holds a sense of saving past efforts towards someone or something.

ALL of that is good.

BUT… like everything else in life, “not giving up” has two sides.

The other side of this attitude most be balanced.

So PAUSE… and evaluate… what needs to stay and what must go.

Start with the basics to master the right attitude of not giving up:

👍 Give up the illusion that you have control of events or people. Know that the only power you have is over yourself! Your mind, perceptions and focus.

👍 Give up the illusion that events or people have power over you. Know that you hold the keys to your inner kingdom, you allow or deny others to your world.

👍 Give up the past! All of it. Retain the lessons, the memories and all the wisdom held in the corner of the past. No matter what it held it exist only in your mind. Give it up and free up the place for the new.

👍 Give up the need to be everything for everyone! Remember that when you are everything for someone, you take away their right to learn and grow in their own way. They too, strive on trial and error, on falling and getting up.

👍 Give up self sabotage and limiting mindset. Embrace what comes your way and sort between lessons, wisdom and growth.

Wherever you are, your exactly where you need to be now. Be open for what comes and what goes.

Give all all what no longer serves you

Give up all what brings suffering

The one thing that you don’t give up on is showing up everyday!

To your joy🌈

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